Illustration by Ajda Gregorčič
We are persuaded by people we like
Spend time getting to know someone before asking a favour. The more they like you or feel you have something in common, the more likely they are to agree.
If you want a favour – do a favour
Do someone a good deed and they’ll want to return the favour.
First ask for something small
If you just made a good connection, don’t gamble it away by asking for too much too soon.
Stick to your commitment
Once we’ve made a commitment it’s important to our sense of self-esteem to stick to it.